If I Were Jinkee...

Last time I heard from the entertainment grapevine, Krista Ranillo is already back in town. If I were not mistaken, it was reported that she eluded everybody in the airport by taking the path exclusively provided only for Pres. Gloria Arroyo and Manny Pacquiao. Hmmm, that's something fishy...

How about Jinkee? I have a hunch that she is still trying to nurse a pierced heart. Well, with all those nasty reports circulating around, regardless of whether it's true or just a haux, who would not be depressed of feeling betrayed by the love of her life?

As if everybody cares about my opinion (but i'll say it anyway), i do not like Jinkee. She seemed to be aloof, cold, and snubbish unlike her funny mother-in-law, Mommy D. But this time, Jinkee gained my admiration. She is purportedly standing by her man. I agree with what Ms. Gina Alajar allegedly posted in her Facebook shoutout that Jinkee should not give up her husband as Krista is not worth it.

Now I remember, I have to call my lawyer. He told me a month ago that the result of my annulment case will be released anytime within November. I haven't heard from him since then. I wonder if he meant, November of... next year? :(

she is still so lucky..

last saturday, i met dr. joy (a pediatrician) while we were attending a seminar. i later found out that, aside from the fact that we have the same three-letter name ending in letter "Y", we also share the same fate (almost!).. in marriage.

just like me, she got married twice (civil and church).

just like me, she has no children (thank God! we both agree, indeed, it is a blessing in disguise!).

just like me, she is financially independent from her husband.

just like me, she bought properties from her own pocket.

and just like my ex-husband, hers did not contribute for the payment of their domestic expenses.

and just like my ex-husband, hers cheated on her..

oh another thing! dr. joy discovered that she is just the 2nd wife. how did her husband do that? her husband applied for a late registration at the NSO and used another name. he was able to secure a birth certificate needed for the proceesing of marriage license, blah, blah, blah.

me? i believe i am also just the 2nd wife. unfortunately, i don't have a proof. i just hold on to what my ex-husband said days after we got married. he married lorlaine (check my previous posts re her identity) solemnized by the mayor (or the judge?) at the municipality of santiago, agusan del norte. according to him, the marriage contract was intercepted at the local civil registrar just in time before it was supposedly submitted to the NSO.

the only difference i noticed between dr. joy's fate and mine are:

a) her husband is earning much (he is an OFW), while mine, a government employee, who does not depend on his net take home pay (the lowest allowed by the government) but relied on the "donations" from the suppliers and his assigned agencies.

b) since her husband is also earning, he was not considered a leech to her, while mine.. never mind!

c) she did not change her name when she got married. good for her. me? i changed it (sigh!). i suggested to my husband (then!) that i would just be using my maiden name. he got angry! hmmp! if only i knew that we would just come to this point.. (sigh again!)

for now, dr. joy is just waiting for the decision of the bigamy case she filed against her husband. the decision will come out anytime soon.

dr. joy will be free again.

she is still lucky..

who is he anyway?

i went home from office at around 10pm last night. no, i did not render an overtime. an officemate from another department came over and talked about a relationship she just ended.

accordingly, her ex-boyfriend was a certified user. that's what her other colleagues describe him. there was one time they went to Mall of Asia. her ex-boyfriend wanted her to buy him an Armani perfume. although she can afford it, she did not give in. from then on, it had become an issue between them..

i told her, "hmm.. been there!".

i can relate to her. when we were still together, my ex-husband would ask me to buy him things for himself like books, shirts, and Levis' pants! at that time, i didn't own such expensive pants but i bought few pairs for him anyway lest it would become a cause for an argument. too bad, because of him i forgot to value myself..

he would resent me everytime i arrived home from travel empty-handed. there was even one instance that i gave him a white shirt which my brother gave me. he was disgusted to find out that it was just a promo shirt from a client of my brother.

by the way, do i have to mention that he was so disappointed when he received only a bar of chocolate from my sister who came home from United Kingdom?

my two brothers also got chocolates but they did not complain.. then, why would he?

my ex-husband panicked when his ex-mother-in-law consulted a fortune-teller..

yeah! i did mention in my earlier post that what triggered my husband to reluctantly confess about the crime his brother had allegedly committed was the fact that i told him that my mother consulted a fortune-teller. my mother was suspicious when she learned about the burglary.. she felt something was so fishy..

with a help of colleague, my mother was able to tracked the location of the fortune-teller. the pathway to her house was so steep that one false move would drag the unfamiliar visitor to roll down to the ground. i could imagine the horrendous ordeal my mother and her colleague went through considering their age, not to mention their chronic arthritis.

anyway, as narrated by my mother, they were able to talk to the fortune teller about their purpose. after the fortune-teller performed a ritual, she told my mother that the theft was somebody who is closely related to my ex-husband. she continued to describe in detail the identity of the culprit when my mother stopped her. my mother was so embarrassed that she did not want her colleague to hear the rest of the revelations. the description pointed it all to the identity of my ex-husband's brother..

my mother then vowed to return to the fortune-teller but she silently hoped her colleague would not go with her. she did not convince me to go with her, i myself was already convinced. but because of my busy schedule at that time, we were able to visit the fortune-teller only a few weeks after. unfortunately, the fortune-teller had difficulty delivering her service again since it happened more than a month already and my mother did not buy black candles as instructed..

when i told my ex-husband about that, he laughed deviously, turned his back from me, then tried to hide his sigh of relief..

i was helpless to ask help from NBI..

this is the 2nd to the last part of the previous post, "my ex-bro-in-law allegedly stole my jewels away.."

after his confession, my ex-husband firmly instructed me not to contact any NBI agents. i protested! i explained that to set things clear, the crime should be investigated to point out who the guilty party is. but my protest fell into deaf ears.. he was so sure that his brother did it. he further said that the result of the investigation would be a tremendous shame to the family.

the next thing i knew, he wiped off the finger prints on the jewelry box.. and so was my hope for justice..