Why My Ex-Husband Agreed To Annul Our Marriage (last part)

Who would not be scared to be placed in a controversial limelight especially when one is guilty of his own crime. Of course, if you were in my ex-husband's shoes, you would pay for the annulment fees, right?

Yeah, that's what he did. As to from whom and/or from which he got the money to fund for such a costly endeavor, that is... no longer my business. :)

Why My Ex-Husband Agreed To Annul Our Marriage (part 2 of 3)

Moreover, the next issue that I raised was, who is going to pay for the annulment expenses? Certainly not me! When we got married, our officemates and common friends said it was as if my ex-husband won the lotto while I, I lost all my fortune thru a fire. They must have seen a premonition... of a doomed marriage.

Anyway, back to who should pay for the annulment case: I convinced my ex-husband by intimidating him that rather than paying for a lawyer to defend him for a concubinage case that I would file against him and his mistress for an adultery, he has no other choice but to pay for the annulment case. There would also be a possible consequence that their lovechild might be dragged to the scandal, as well as, evidence of scandalous circumstances that my ex-husband and his mistress created.

(to be continued)

Why My Ex-Husband Agreed To Annul Our Marriage

I am writing this article to give you an idea of why I said in my previous post that my ex-husband was forced to cooperate and pay for the annulment fees.

Months before I filed for an annulment case against my ex-husband, I called him asking that our marriage be finally put to an end... legally. I explained that there is no more reason to save our marriage since: 1) we don't love each other anymore; 2) his infidelity is grossly incurable; 3) we already have our own separate lives; 4) at that time, he was already living in with his mistress, with whom he has a lovechild; and not to mention, 5) he housed his mistress in a place where a number of our COA officemates are residing (delicadeza, are you there?)

to be continued...

It's Confirmed, I'm Single... Again?

To those who are asking: yes, my marriage is finally over. I got the judgment on my annulment case just this January. Actually, there is no marriage to speak of from the very beginning. That is, if I am correct in interpreting the phrase, "null and void ab initio", from the dispositive portion of the decision. Hence, should I say, "I was never been married"?

Speaking of decision, I'll be posting some of its excerpts soon!

Keep posted! :)

Trooping to the RTC

Last January 4, I got a text from somebody congratulating me for the positive result of my annulment case. Since the sender's mobile number is unregistered (I changed cp, by the way), I immediately assumed it was from my lawyer. I texted back that I might drop by the Regional Trial Court (RTC) Branch I as I was still in Butuan then.

When I was about to ask for my copy of the decision, I was told that the said document was already in the possession of my lawyer. It turned out it that it was not my lawyer who texted me. Never mind the identity, lest I might be cited for contempt. (ha?)

Fast forward: I got the document.. not from RTC Branch I but from the one who texted me. Who gave it to me is no longer relevant. I was given specific instruction not to tell anybody.

For now, I am awaiting for the end of that endless 15-day period. When would that be? I'm wondering...

i love you, my goodbye

if my memory serves me right, it was a week before christmas day when i texted my lawyer about the status of my annulment case. i was surprised to know that it was still pending at the regional trial court, meaning, the decision was not yet forwarded to the solgen (solicitor general) for concurrence.

my lawyer then promised to have it sent to solgen. that means, i would have to wait for another fifteen (15) working days from the day it was supposedly received by the solgen.

i could not wait for that moment when i will be using my maiden name again. i am so excited! i love it! my goodbye! :)

If I Were Jinkee...

Last time I heard from the entertainment grapevine, Krista Ranillo is already back in town. If I were not mistaken, it was reported that she eluded everybody in the airport by taking the path exclusively provided only for Pres. Gloria Arroyo and Manny Pacquiao. Hmmm, that's something fishy...

How about Jinkee? I have a hunch that she is still trying to nurse a pierced heart. Well, with all those nasty reports circulating around, regardless of whether it's true or just a haux, who would not be depressed of feeling betrayed by the love of her life?

As if everybody cares about my opinion (but i'll say it anyway), i do not like Jinkee. She seemed to be aloof, cold, and snubbish unlike her funny mother-in-law, Mommy D. But this time, Jinkee gained my admiration. She is purportedly standing by her man. I agree with what Ms. Gina Alajar allegedly posted in her Facebook shoutout that Jinkee should not give up her husband as Krista is not worth it.

Now I remember, I have to call my lawyer. He told me a month ago that the result of my annulment case will be released anytime within November. I haven't heard from him since then. I wonder if he meant, November of... next year? :(