the circumstancial evidence..

(this is the 4th part of the post entitled, "my ex-bro-in-law allegedly stole my jewels away)

my ex-husband cited the following circumstances why they were accusing his brother as the black sheep:

1) his brother went to the house and found out that nobody was around. accordingly, he then proceeded to his lola in libertad and on his way, he saw my car parked at my office. he later went back to the house and nobody was still around.. (why would he still go back to the house when he knew that we were still at the office? he saw my car there, didn't he?)

2) the morning after what happened, he went around the neighborhood asking questions. but the neighbors swore that he did not just ask questions, he was sort of intimidating them to keep their silence, that is, see no evil, hear no evil.

3) a neighbor saw him outside the house holding a bolo that sunday afternoon. when asked about it, he could not give a straight answer. (he must have used that bolo to forcibly open the main door)

to be continued...

the revelation (3rd part of the post, "my ex-bro-in-law allegedly stole..."

my ex-husband was firm in his decision not to pursue the investigation of the case. to avoid further discussion (just like any other issues that he was guilty of), he would usually raise his voice to intimidate me, thereby silencing me.

thankfully my mother did something for me - she confided to a fortune-teller. upon learning that and before the fortune teller could tell her who the culprit was considering at that time my mother was not yet able to buy black candles as instructed by the fortune teller, hehehe), he panicked!

then one night, my ex-husband talked to me. without my knowledge, he and his own family had been accusing his older brother of being responsible for the robbery. of course, nobody really knows his own brother but he and his own family, right?

well, watch out for my next post on why they were pointing fingers at my ex-bro-in-law..

my disappointment...

(this is the part 2 of the previous post entitled, "my ex-bro-in-law allegedly stole my jewels away")

as i was saying, i happened to bumped into my ex-bro-in-law while everyone else was preoccupied with ensuring the security of the house. he was in my master bedroom and he was about to approach the table where my jewelries were once kept in place. i did not give malice to it, not until i found out who the main suspect is..

i was so determined to have the crime investigated. unfortunately, to my dismay, my ex-husband was not cooperative with the police. he even underrated them as incompetent. how could i argue further? i could just not understand why he was not doing anything to solve the crime. i thought he was the man of the house..

few days after, my ex-husband wiped off the fingerprints on the jewelry box..

(to be continued..)

my ex-bro-in-law allegedly took my jewels away..

i forgot again! six days ago i was supposed to be commemorating (this time, not celebrating, of course!) the loss of my jewelries and other stuff due to burglary. it happened in may 23, 2004, sunday. my ex-husband, along with the two-year old daughter of my ex-bro-in-law (brother of my ex-husband), my helper, and i went to church that morning. it was a rare occasion that nobody was left in the house. we then proceeded to pizza hut - gaisano to take our lunch. thereafter, my ex-husband decided to ask for my help in finalizing his barangay annual audit reports. hence, we did it at my office, tagging along with us the daughter of my ex-bro-in-law and my helper.

at around nighttime, we were still at the office then, i received a frantic call from my boarder saying that a break in has just occured. we immediately rushed to the house and there we found out that all valuable items that can be pocketed (e.g., my jewelries and that of my boarder) were missing. all other appliances were intact.

while everybody was busy examining for some clues on the crime, i happened to bumped into my ex-bro-in-law in the master bedroom.

(to be continued on my next post..)

independence day!

i forgot! i was supposed to be celebrating my independence day last april 22. actually, i thought the day was hmmm.. april 24? or 25? or 26? honestly, i don't remember! all i know is that three years ago, sometime towards the end of April, that was friday, i finally decided to free myself from the chain that almost destroyed me physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

yes, i kicked my dear husband out of my house.. and out of my life.. forever.. hehehe. don't worry dear sympathizers of my dear husband, "kicked" was an overstatement. i just showed him the way out after i calmly convinced him to "get lost!". hehehe. that was an overstatement again. seriously speaking, we did not have a fight that night. we just talked. my helper did not even know that something was wrong, not until she saw my husband carrying his bags on his way out.

that was three years ago. and a week ago, i just forgot to celebrate! how dare me! hehehe. anyway, it's not too late. cheers! :)